There’s Game. Which is a set of social tools for getting a girl to like you. What you’re basically doing is showing her that you don’t need her, that if you’re with her you’re with her voluntarily. She gets the tingles from that.

But there’s something better. There’s male sexuality.

The male is meant to be a beautiful creature. Sexuality is not the domain of the female alone. And sexuality is not just physical. You can have a sexual essence, or personality. You can move with desire. This is the ideal.

Men are more attractive than they know. The female gender makes a point of not being impressed by guys, when they are. Once, I was walking down the street with a girl I was on a date with and she started stuttering. She was responding to my sexuality, not my “Game.” It’s sexuality that makes a stutter happen, while Game just creates a happy little smile.

Eyes are one key to being sexual. The way you look at a woman, with depth, with meaning, tells all. Intelligence is sexy. And intelligence is conveyed through the eyes.

Another time I was bending far over a pool table for a shot, and a girl was watching my ass. Little opportunities like this are blossoming flowers for newfound sexual experiences.

You don’t have to be a male model to be considered attractive. Remember that there is a whole swath of chick-kind out there, and they each have their own specific tastes. Chances are there’s a demographic you appeal to.

Even older guys have a kind of attractiveness. Many men say they get more attention from 20somethings in their forties than they ever did in their twenties. And, considering that men age far better than women (who hit the legendary Wall), it’s not a surprising fact.

A physically fit guy who stands upright and projects desire will do well in this world. He still has to make the first move with the chick-in-question, but when he does he will get giggles and female-hands-running-through-her-hair.

The key word is projection. You have to be a part of the world, engaged and active in it. You have to flow with it, if you know what I mean. You’re projecting a loose kind of playful interest in sex that can take it or leave it. It’s the farthest thing from desperation. You’re flirting with the universe, even when there’s no one around.

Why is male sexuality more powerful than Game? Because the foundation-stone of a relationship is need. The need of a female for a real man. Male sexuality emphasizes the maleness of the individual in question. Don’t be androgynous. Do be a man. Chix diggit.